Write for Us
Things I Learned the Hard Way is a place where women can share life lessons about home, family, friendship and work. The site is only as valuable as its community of readers, who share their experiences with us through comments and essays.
Feel free to ask for some advice or to share a story.
Asking for Advice
If you have a problem, chances are that one of our writers has faced the issue before. Write to us and we’ll try to share our experiences with you. Weather you are trying to figure out how to mend chipped Limoges, or to find the right words of comfort for a friend who has just lost her job, we’ll share with you what we have learned the hard way.Write For Us
In the next few months we will publish several series of essays on the hard-learned lessons of:- Going back to work after kids
- Avoiding or coping with date rape
- Asking for and getting a raise
- Enjoying the holidays
- Finding clothing that fits
If you have learned a life lesson the hard way on this or any other topic, please submit your story for consideration.

Comments
I have a beauty tip to share, not sure how to. Please advise.
Thanks.
Posted by: Dina May | October 13, 2006 10:07 AM
Thanks for your interest, Dina. If it short, you can post it as a comment on a story in our cosmetics section.
http://thingsilearnedthehardway.com/beauty_fashion/cosmetics/
If it is longer, you may want to write a little something.
Posted by: Carrie Bickner-Zeldman | October 13, 2006 06:06 PM
An unsolicited suggestion: it would be neat to have a little style-switcher with a few alternative interpretations of symbolic femininity. I like this blog a lot, but I don't like pink roses. :)
Posted by: a girl | October 31, 2006 12:00 AM