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Elderly? ELDERLY!

Okay! So I know that I’m not young. Sixty-two, after all, isn’t an age that is synonymous with the term “spring chicken.” But here’s the rub! Often—too often—I’ve read newspaper accounts about sixty-plus individuals whom the reporters refer to as “elderly.” Come on, now! This, to me, is a stretch. If 50 is the new 40 and 60 the new 50, I am hardly elderly! In fact, I’m so young in spirit that I’m sure that the “new 50” is too old a classification for me.

I’ve learned the hard way, however, that in this youth-minded society that my opinion and experience have little or no value because at 62 I’m old. (My contemporaries, however, know where I’m coming from and what I have to offer. Luckily, we’re growing in numbers!)

Job Search

Recently I went in search of more freelance work. (I’ve been a writer for more than 40 years…a good and award-winning writer.) First stop was an advertising agency looking for “someone who really knows how to write!” According to the vice president who recommended me—she’s five years my senior—the agency has problems with most of its writers. “The kids coming out of college these days don’t even know how to write a sentence correctly,” the VP told me. “We need someone with your experience and abilities.” I was sure I had this writing gig in the bag. Wrong! The 30-something human resource person was kind to me during the interview, but stressed the need of being able to write copy that would “hit” the agency’s under-40 market demographics. “No problem,” I said. My assurance that I could do the job, and do it well, wasn’t enough. I never got a call!

Next stop was a youth-oriented publication…the same one I have been writing stories for for years. This publication was looking for a health and fitness writer. Now this was really a perfect match for me. I am a published author with a book on health and fitness. I’m a popular motivational speaker on health and fitness. I’m certified by the American Council on Exercise as a Lifestyle and Weight Management Consultant. If ever there was a perfect match for my talents and expertise, this job was it!

The publication editors had not met me in person in the five years I’ve written for them. I met with them for the interview for this position. Not only did I not get the health and fitness writer position, but since the interview, my assignments from them have decreased. I’m sure my age and white hair proved to be a detriment (to them; not me). The editors probably didn’t want someone so “elderly!”

Being Acceptable

One of the signs of wisdom is being able to accept the things you cannot change and changing the things that you can. I’m old enough to know this.

I no longer worry—at least most of the time—how others view me and my abilities. If “elderly” works as a definition for me by some, so be it! I still have value and I’ve discovered that there are publications that want my work, no matter what age I am. So I’m still writing (and getting published) if I’m not too busy exercising with my Hula-Hoop or kayaking or taking all my 30- and 40-year-old friends to their doctor appointments. This “elderly” gal still has it!

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Way to go Sandra!!!! Those people should read your book and then they would know what they are missing.

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