Four-A-Day!
Like many of you, I feel great when spring arrives; the sun shines and the flowers begin to bloom. It’s an “up-time-of-year.” (This is true…if I don’t look at all the work I need to do outside!) As great as spring is, there are still three other seasons in the year which challenge my well-being. (I live in Michigan which is known for its rainy falls, often-humid summers and cold, dreary winters!)
Years ago I learned that I could give into the weather—hence, get depressed when the sun refuses to make an appearance for days—or do something to add a little sunshine to my life. That is when I instituted my four-a-day mission. My goal is to make four strangers smile each and every day. If I’m not out-and-about—which is rare—and I don’t have an opportunity to make strangers smile, I turn to email and/or the telephone and transmit positive messages to four friends or family members.
My mission/goal has made my life a whole lot happier and has kept me connected with my fellow human beings in such a positive way. I can usually find something good about everyone I meet. This is such a wonderful way to combat not only bad weather but bad headlines and stories of human tragedy, which, unfortunately, are normal occurrences. Strangers, such as people you meet while waiting in a line, or in doctor’s waiting rooms, at airports, coming out of church, or service personnel (store clerks, building janitors, doormen, gas station attendants), etc., etc., etc. are my targets.
Even a brief glance at these fellow human beings usually provides me with some reason to acknowledge them and offer a smile. I tell them that I like their hairdo, their smile, their efficient service, their outfit, their jewelry…something! If I can’t find anything, I use my never-fail line: “Excuse me. I have a goal of making four people
smile each and every day and I need one more today. Can you help me?” THIS ALWAYS WORKS!
How fortunate I have been to learn that a simple act of connecting with people can make all the difference in my life. And, I am sure, I have had a small but positive influence on all the strangers I have met over the years.
My friendships are abundant and my smile has become my trademark because I have been able to take a little risk to assure that sunshine can be just as warm when it comes from the heart. Four-a-day is such a good way to travel!

Comments
What a great idea!!!!!! I'm going to try it!
Posted by: Carol | September 27, 2007 06:45 PM