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February 24, 2008

Rich, for Sure!

I did it again! I had this “brilliant” scheme to make money—not much, but some—and “this time” it was going to work! But I learned the hard way—finally—that the best way to make money is to do the best thing that I’m good at, and that’s writing.

I love to knit. It’s a relaxing hobby that brings me joy. Since I’ve been a knitter for years, I’ve tried many different projects and because of this, family and friends have been treated to many of my hand-knitted creations.

A few years ago, my favorite hand-knitted gifts for new moms and new grandmothers were cute little caps for the new arrivals. I made pumpkin caps, strawberry caps, blackberry caps, watermelons caps. I also make flower caps for spring and caps with Christmas and winter themes. I knitted and gave many caps.

I enjoyed making them and giving these caps. The receivers were thrilled with them, so much so that many suggested that I make them to sell. Although I knew better—I don’t like to turn a hobby into a business—I decided to do this. I even went as far as finding a children’s boutique willing to sell my caps. (It would pay me $20 for each cap it sold and it would retail it for double this price.) This sounded great to me and I began to plan how I was going to spend all the money I was going to make.

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February 04, 2008

Where's the Rose Garden?

With joy in my heart! I know that this is how I should feel when I offer to do things for others. I’ve learned the hard way, however, that I’m not very good at the joy part. Many times I resent doing things and wish I had never made the offer in the first place.

A young (in her early 40s) friend’s diabetes has forced her to have both a kidney and pancreas transplants. Following these major surgeries, her vision began failing. Now she is blind.

I met this person and we became friends more than 10 years ago when she was a vibrant and successful businesswoman. Attractive, single and with a great sense of humor, it was easy to like her. Besides, I thought, it’s good having younger friends—I’m 20 years her senior. Now I’ll have someone to take me to my doctor appointments when I get old! (This was just a passing thought and definitely not the reason for my friendship with her. She was and is a wonderful person!)

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